Standards too high?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I recently met a guy through an online dating service and thought he was very nice and got along great and have been talking regularly.
However, we met to play a round of golf and it turns out that I am not physically attracted to him at all. He e-mailed me and said what a great time he had and how great we were together. He wants to get together again.
Am I being shallow in not wanting a relationship with him?
Or are my standards just too high?
You have to go with your feelings.
If you are not attracted, for whatever reason, then you should tell him, gently, that while you enjoyed meeting him that there was no "click."
There is no reason to draw out a relationship that is going nowhere.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com