Is it too late for me..is she even that way
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well im bi(discreet) and i started liking this girl at school (11th grade). She would always be behind me everytime i came out of class and spend awhile walkin by my desk(slowly),and act very nervous.Sometimes i wud stare at her and she wouldnt mind she'd just stare back shyly.
So one day i wrote her a poem and my friend told me to give to her but i was too shy so he gave it for me(anonymously). At first she acted cool towards me all hyped up and then throughout the rest of the day she just kept staring at me whereva i went. Then from those days on all she'd do was just stare at me.Atimes she would ask me random questions but i was to scared to answer. When i told my friend about this he said she told him that i should come up to her and tell her how i feel. My friend is a bigmouth &a liar but i wrote to her on the net and told her that i liked her and was sorry if she felt uncomfortable and that i was over it..(i wasn't)
All she did after that was go back to looking at me and not saying a word..then i approached her at school and told her if she received the msg. She said yes and i asked her why she stopped talkin to me and she acted all nervous smiling and saying she doesnt know why she just felt uncomfortable with the poem. Which was weird because before and after that talk she didnt mind being around me at all.She'd stand close,behind,or sometimes next to me. and I'd always pull away.
Then on the day of regents i was sitting down and she stood there at the side of me hesitating back and forth like she wanted to tell me something or wanted to pass. I didnt look in her direction and she left. Then i wrote to her on the net and told her if she cud tell me what she really thought and that i shouldnt of told my "exfriend" about it and that im not sorry about liking her.Been couple days now and she didnt reply. So what do i do now? Was she even interested? Did my staying away from her caused her to give up on me?
You are playing too hard to get with her.
You need to be very open with her and let there be no doubt that you like her and want a relationship.
What you have been doing so far is very, very confusing to her.
So be honest! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com