What to do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
im 19, me and my girlfriend were going out for just over two months, booked a holiday together and were really happy. Then one night we had a fight about me telling someone something that i shouldnt have...i knew i was wring and apologised etc. so that nioght we didnt meet up and she didnt go out so i got the blamme for that.....the next day she said, we have to talk.......then on bebo we deleted eachother etc in an angry mood, i put a poll up and asked whther or not i should go on the holiday etc etc
her friend saw this and this embarrassed my girlfriend.....
she tood me that she needed time to sort her head out becuase her last bf hur ther sooo much and was afraid i would cheat on her and treat her the ssame way, then she said i was also tooo immature.shes 20 turning 21 and im 20 in march 08.
she went out a few nights ago and was all over some gurl, taking photos, sleazing all over him etc......
i have txt her and told her i miss her , love her and want her back and that i would do anything to keep her.....she turned round and said i cant believe i was bringing this up and that i was going to ruin the holiday because i couldnt have her as a gf
we are sharing a room on hols and a bed and i think it might be awlward.....i dont want it to be over and dont know what to do !!!!
Play it cool. Be her friend and have a very good relationship.
As the holidays get closer she will probably start feeling positively toward you again.
On the holiday you are very likely to grow together and who knows what might happen.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com