should i get over him and f so how
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hey so I could use some advice ok I have to explain all of this or you will not it so this is going to be long lol ok so me and david went out from aug to nov I broke up with him cause we both became so busy I never saw him it had been a month we hardly talked or saw each other and before that we hang out every weekend and talked everyday on the phone but we end it good so we were still friends and txt each other a lot so now starting in January we became fwb(friends with benefits)but no more than making out then in feb I ended it cause I was just getting hurt cause I wanted more but him and his gf just broke up so he wanted to wait and he thought summer would be a good time to go out but I disagreed cause im never around in the summer so we would end up with the same problem but then in like April or may we started back up hanging out I wasnít planning on being fwb but thatís how it end up we almost went out again but then I found another guy didnít last long with this other guy cause I couldnít help but to compare him to david but we went back again to being fwb and Idk if I want a bf now cause im so busy but he doesnít seem like the same guy he is still nice and all but I donít feel like we talk as much as we use to I feel like im just trying to tell myslef that maybe that would change if we went out even though I know it probable wont so idk I guess I should just try to move on I know we will alaways be good friends but it just seems werid thinking of not having my weekends I spend with him (making out lol) but maybe I should try to let him go cuase he doesnít stand up for me anymore my brother started hurting me(by throwing b-ball at me and he jumped on me) and david just set there and also he says well call me and we can hang so I call and he cant he use to do this in jan. all the time, he will tell him i will txt you back later or i will txt you 2m hardly ever does i know he does get busy and forgets but shouldnt i be worth remebering or am i just expecting to much from him??? I think its time to move on but how do you have any advice for me plaese help I have been dealing with this forever i just want it to end to figure out what i want i feel like im over him but then i dont and idk what to do but when i find another guy and i start to like him it seems like im over david so maybe i am its just when im not crushing on anyone else i fall for him again HELP WHAT DO I DO ??? im 15 going on 16 and he just turned 16
It doesn't seem like you and David have a good future. Your relationship just isn't strong enough.
As you said when you are crushing on anyone else you forget about him.
Summer's her so take advantage and find someone new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com