Am I crazy or what?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok guys I just came out of a 2 year relattionship with my high school sweet heart so I was very down on my self it ended pretty baddly ...Regeardless my self esteam was in the gutter and the then i met her she always work there but i thought i never had a chance so i never noticed..She was going through rough times aswell she was there even noone gave me confort..We hooked up and thing were great we talked thongs out it was nice ..she was differnt but it didn't matter i loved her and i still do...but i'm scared shes distant she work almost 60 hrz a week and only getz paid for 40 i lover and need her but she became depressed about how she feels useless and only is waiteing for her grampz to die for he needs her yet she will not admit it since his wife has passed itz been months since we made love i miss her and have told her this ..yet we both cry and nothing is resolved i still lay in bed dreaming of her just by my side i love her soo much i cry and i'm going mad cuz she rather work 40 extra hr and not get paid and the take a shower and smoke than spend time with me gosh...am I overreacting? Nothing fills this void...
The key question is why is she working so many hours?
If she could cut back she would have time for you. Right now she is too stressed.
Talk with her gently and try to convince her to slowly cut back on her hours.
Also try to convince her to restart your physical relationship... tell her it would relax her (hopefully!)
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com