I can't believe it!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok, here is the deal. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half and I love him more than anything. He is my best friend and I feel so lucky to have him in my life. Our relationship is difficult because I am in a sorority and he lives about an hour away and is not in college but has a great job! One night I went out to a fraternity where I ran into a guy friend from one of my classes. We talked for awhile and then I decided that I should go because I was feeling really "tipsy" and thought it was time for me to go home. None of the other girls wanted to leave yet, so my friend said he would walk me to the front door. He did and I gave him a hug and then we kissed. I couldn't believe it! I was so mad at myself and I regret ever doing it. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship but I feel like if I tell him it will ruin everything. I don't like my friend that I kissed, and I know it would never happen again. I don't know if I should tell my boyfriend or just brush it off as if it is not that big of a deal. I feel horrible though! HELP!
Don't tell him. It is too minor to risk your relationship.
If it happens again, or if more happens then you will definitely need to tell him because it is only fair to share your feelings with him.
What you did this time had nothing to do with feelings... you were tipsy, a guy walked you home and you instinctively gave him a hug and kiss. Not a big deal.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com