shy guy with girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hey, I got talking to a guy about 2 months ago, we met in a bar. his friend, him, and i spent ages laughing and joking together, he was talking about possibly breaking up with his girlfriend (they had been going out about 2mths).this is how the conversation got started, he was asking advice. we know some of the same people and started talking online after that. we seem to speak everyday. he is quiet and shy when he hasnt had a drink though. he works in another bar and when i have been out he has made eye contact with me constantly while i am in the queue, i even came back from a concert one night and the first thing he did was ask me about it. at the end of his shift he came up to say hello before he left. the problem is, he didnt break up with this girl (although he did say they seem to be better as friends, when i first met him). he is also moving quite far away in about two months. his friend found out i liked him and told him. I have no idea what his reaction was, or if he liked me back. i dont want to keep on at his friend about what was said etc. he still speaks to me the same as before he knew though, but as i said is a nice guy anyways. is it worth trying to get it started with a girlfriend and a possible move away looming? if so how? as he is awflly shy and already knows what i think.
My advice is to let him go.
As you say, he has a girlfriend and is planning to move far away.
Not much future there.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com