Europe for four months
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My bf has recently gone to Europe about one month ago. I was worried that he may cheat because he told me that he had slept with about 10 girls....he told me he had four girlfriends tho. I feel that he might end up being promiscuous because Im not there and cant see what happens nor will I ask " ar you cheating?" Iv asked him to cal me and touch base. He calls when he feels like he should...not to mention I work full time. He never gets jealous for me even when I try. He knows I get jealous. He never says that he misses me when he calls. He usually just calls so I dont fuss. .....NOW I dont know if its all in my head, but I feel like theres more going on in Europe and he doesnt tell me what really happens. Can he be cheating, or am I being a neurotic mess? What should I do?
No, you are not neurotic.
He could be sleeping with other women in Europe. There is nothing you can do about it other than talk to him and worry. Try trusting too. Here's a webpage:
This advice is probably not too helpful, but trust is the bottom line.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com