Just Friends or More?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've known this guy for 2 years now and we're in the same club. This year at lunch when I was sitting alone he would come to sit with me (which is nice) but what was odd was the minute 1 of my friends came he would jump up and leave. This year in tech I he started treating me diffrently like being more protective of me, giving me senority over some of the others (that I'm only 1 play below), hugging me, and generally getting more physical. He then asked me out to lunch after school one day, I agreed. Until after after lunch when a mutual friend talked to me I had thought nothing of this behaivor (guys are kind of a new terratory). I recipricated by asking him to have lunch with me and he agreed. He is 18 and has graduated high school and I 2 years younger than he is.
Does he like me or does he just want to be friends? Should I ask him out? Should I still think a relationship is in the picture even though he is so much older than me?
He seems strongly attracted to you.
Your dates went smoothly so why should you back off now?
You should ignore the age difference unless you are under 16 in which case you have to worry about sexual offender laws.
BTW, my comment is not legal advice... the laws on this subject vary from state to state.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com