Does he still like me?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have worked with this guy for 6 years. I finally admitted to him that I liked him and wanted to date him. He thought I was just playing with him but we eventually started sending text messages and conversating on the phone for about 7 months. His father got sick and when I asked him was he ready for a serious commitment he told me no because everyone that was close to him was leaving him. After a while I found out he got involved with someone else and he stopped talking to me. She doesn't even live in the same state as us. 3 months passed by and he has finally started back talking to me at work. He makes sure he prints to the printer in my area which is on the opposite end of the floor even though he has a printer on his desk and one is in the work room right next to his office and I catch him looking at me all the time. He also walks to my desk to ask quetions about work that he already knows the answers to. I know from a mutual friend that he still has his girlfriend but I just want to know is this his way of finding a reason to come see and if so why does he not just say something?
Text him and ask if he has a girlfriend.
If he says yes, then ask him why he is being so friendly to you.
If he says no, then ask him out on a date.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com