trusting my gut
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
i started dating this girl a few weeks ago. She is beautiful, smart and i get that feeling in my stomach when i think about her. The only problem is that she reminds me of an ex of mine. Not completely but a few characteristics do remind me of her. This particular ex hurt me pretty badly. So when i think about this new girl, I often feel like she is above me or she is going to hurt me or that I wont be able to roll with her. I know these are feelings of inadueqacy but my question is that is it all in my head? Should I trust my gut or should I just man up and enjoy what i have or what it could be? See where it goes? I'm usually pretty confident with women and have dated a lot. She just happens to be one the best girls i've come across in a long time and just so happens to remind of a girl i once knew. Should i just not date her and move on to something more comfortable? Advice? Thanks in advance. You guys are great!
Give her more time and if the gut reaction is still there then find someone new. She sounds like a nice woman.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com