Am I Over Reacting
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 years now but I have a bad problem with jelousy. A couple of weeks ago I found out that he was so called talking to this girl on the phone and didn't tell me. She called my phone one day and told me that they go out. When I told this him he told me that he never went out with the girl, when he found out that she likes him he stopped talking to her. He erased her phone number out of his phone and said that he would never talk to her again. Now since all of this has happened I've noticed that he doesn't let me look in his phone like I use to. I asked him about this he told me that he never ask to look through my phone because he trust me why do I want to look through his. I keep wondering if he still talk to other girls but I try to stop but I can't. I've been cheated on in the past and you can say that I always have my graud up. Am I over reacting to this situation.
You have been dating him for four years.
There have been no incidences of cheating from him.
My advice is to fight the jealousy because sometimes jealousy pushes the other person into bad behavior.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com