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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi i have very low confidance and never had a girl friend as i never know when to ask i am good friends with some body so i think that makes it harder to ask and we do clubs and things how do u think it is easyist to ask and when do i ask like eg(with friends on her own should i get a friend to ask or what???) my biggest fear is that we won't be friends and cos i could be clased as a nerd i don't really know what to do when u go out exsept talk kiss and that stuff all i know is that i love her but i know if i do leave it to long so won't be intrested cos i think she is a bit (but in a while we are going on a like 4 hour bus trip ) thank you very much i would be very gratful if u answer my very long question thank you Advice
It sounds like you have a good handle on how to date: talking, kissing, etc.

When you want to ask a friend out one good way to do it is to say that you are "developing feelings" for her and ask how she feels. This is such a subtle way of bringing up the subject that it should not harm your friendship.

Maybe on your four hour trip you could find an opportunity to ask her.

Good luck! George

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