this guy

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i want to get closer to this guy but everytime im near him i get nervous, my hands start to sweat, and when i talk to him i kinda stutter and when i do i feel like he doesnt want to talk to me, plus i cant look at him in the eyes...I GET SCARED.


what can i do to calm down?
what i do to make him get interested in me?
i need help.

any tips??

thank you! Advice
Here is one thing that will calm you down and make him like you: SMILE and smile some more.

Everyone likes someone who smiles nicely at them... even complete strangers.

Whenever you see him, look him straight in the eyes, smile and say "Hi" plus his name. If more conversation is necessary then ask him how he's doing and when he says "fine" you say "great."

Write out conversations and practice them in the mirror. If he is into sports ask him about that. Make sure you know his favorite teams and how they are doing. Find out what music he likes, what groups, etc. Ask if he has any pets and if you have any tell him about yours.

There are lots of things to talk about... write them down.

Good luck! George

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