6th Grade Year
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I've had this crush since 4th grade. He is pretty popular. So ya. I ended up having the same classes with him in every hour. So I was happy about that. At the begging of the 6th grade school year, him and alot of guys started throwing stuff at me. They threw broken crayons, ripped erasors, and papers at me. So I had like 10 guys all attacking me. I was help less. Then, alot of my friends said that if a guy teases you, that means they like you. I kept arguing about that with my friends. So any ways, back to my crush. We'v been doing that like althrough the school year. So like the 3rd day of school I was going to ask him out, but soon found out that he was already going out with another girl. So I didn't do anything.
October: he and his girl broke up cause of a stupid text message. And one of my best friends said that my crush and I make a good couple. I argued about that cause I didn't want her to know that I like him. So I said I didn't when I actually did. So ya. She said she was going to ask him out for me. I told her not to cause I wasn't ready to go out with someone then. But ya. She did during lunch. And his awnser was a yes. So my stomach got butterflies... I turned red :). Like just before 4th hr. came, I asked him if he wanted to go out with me and he said ya, sure. So I told a friend to ask the same question and he said he didn't know. And while she was walking towards me she yelled to him that I didn't want to go out with him. That seemed to make him down. The day went by and he seemed sad all day. And before school ended I asked his best friend why he's so sad. His best friend didn't know. So I felt sorry cause I thought it was because of me. So I asked his friend to do me a favor. The favor was to ask my crush out. He said ya, i'll do it. And i felt happy and sad. I wanted to go out with him but I didn't want to. I wanted to cause he is like the hottest guy! And I didn't want to cause I didn't want my parents to find out. So I guess he told one of my cousins. My cousin came over to me and asked if it's true if i am really going out with him. I said no! Then he went and asked my crush again. My cousin said that my crush said that i was trying to deny that i was going out with him. So i scoffed at that. Then all of a sudden pples were askin the same question. so i told them the same anwser. Finally that day went bye. Everytime i saw him i had butterflies. and that day there was a little party at school. he came with his sister, aunt, and uncle. i went with my friends. i got won some cady, and when i saw him i asked him if he wanted some and he said no. so i went on. i didn't see him after that. party was over. so i went home. while we were goin out he never asked me to the movies, he didn't do anything with me. i was expecting him to make the moves. we always teased each other. i would mess around by making stupid jokes about him or other peoples, and things. i would make him laugh. he would do the same to me. i was dared to go through his personal journal. it was pretty funny. i got to understand him more. i learned that we had more in common that besides classes, sports, and stuff like that. any ways i think he found out cause of my cousin. he didn't read mine, it thought he was going to but he didn't. when he took something of my close friends or cousin's belongings. i use to run after him to get it back. he would do stuff like that. then he was on top of me cause i got caught with his journal. my friend threw him off me and he hit his heard against the desk. i hurried over to him. so i made sure he was alright. and i wanted to know why he said yes to me, when i asked him out cause i thought he hated me. but he didn't tell me.
like a week befor valentine's day, i was dared to ask out best-best-best-best friend. so i did that dare. his friend wasn't sure what to say. so i guess my bf got mad at me and we broke up on v-day cause, a day befor v-day he asked out his ex. and the next day they were all over each other. so i was happy and sad. then after that, ever since then we always tease each other, we call each other names, we write each other, we talk about the same things, our favorite sport is basketball, and we like the same music. i was happy with that. and he has a younger bro. i was surprized to know that we had more things in common. but those are just a few. so ya. he always picks me and his best- best- best- best friend for basket ball. i have eye contact with him and he does the same back to me. i tickle him he tickles me. we pick on the same pples. he listens to me when i talk. he cheers me up when i am down. i think i still have feelings for him but i am mad that he asked out a girl. i was disapoited. but we still do those things. i want my ex back cause we have alot in common, and i want to see if we can get farther. I need help!!!!
You will have to wait until he and his GF break up again.
Then ask him out again and hope he says yes again. Make it clear to him that you like him and don't get all your friends and relatives involved in it.
Keep it simple. Ask him out to a movie yourself when the time comes.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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get his attention