He gets mad when I question him.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My partner is always doing things with his ex girlfriend. He tells me they are best friends. We have a child together. Everytime they go out I am never invited. I know she doesn't want me there either because she still wants him or that she doesn't like me because I'm with him..SHe never comes to visit our child even tho they are "best friends" they only time she sees our child is when he picks her up to go out. I have read a few of her comments about me joking about the three of us going out but then saying "OVER HER DEAD BODY".
He comes home to me every night. He's a great father. I don't tell him to stop hanging out with her because she is his only friend and they have known each other for years. He promised me I have nothing to worry about. Everytime I question him he gets angry as if to make me think he's sick and tired of telling me the truth and I never take it.
Everytime I try to talk to him he tells me I'm over reacting and that he's with me.
BUt then they stil hang out and she is so fake to me but behind my back she says snarky things about me and he just ignores it.
Its frustrating because as a friend she should be considering my feelings and she should be respective of my feelings as well as of th fact that he has a family now.
HOw can I get her to back off without actually talking to her because she jokes about everything.
I don't want to lose him. I hope I am just over reacting but everyone knows that YOU DO NOT LET UR MAN HANG OUT WIT HIS EX....and my partner does this ALL THE TIME !!!!!...
Ideally, you, your partner, and his ex would be good friends.
But in general this is unlikely to happen and in your particular case, even less likely to happen.
Have you ever invited her over for dinner for the three of you?
It may never happen but it does put you above her in politeness.
Maybe you and your partner could get some couple counseling from a licensed counselor.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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