words or actions ...what to believe

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex and I have been broken up for 9 months. However .. we still see each other... date ... talk on the phone. When we are together his actions say one thing and his words say the oppsit. for example.... he says that he doesn't love me, but he will make cd's of music i like... or give me a back rub. Which do I believe? What he says... or what he does?

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Love isn't always an "on/off" switch. It can sometimes be like a dimmer switch.

Maybe sometimes he loves you and sometimes he doesn't. Or maybe he is somewhere in the middle. This might explain his behavior.

You will have to figure out how to deal with it.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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