I want to prove im serious
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 years and some months,Were both still virgings but just recently the topic came up and she said NO because im not serious enough!!!!(i must admit i am REALLY GOOFY)but it dosent change the way i feel,she knows i love her BUT how do i show her i can be serious????and that i am???????
My advice is to dump your girl friend.
You should not have to change the way you are in such a fundamental way in order to get her love. You should find someone who loves you the way you are. There are plenty of girls who are eager to meet guys. Look around.
If, on the other hand, you want to become more serious, ask her for specific examples of when you are not serious--as they are happening. Ask your friends too. Ask your parents. Ask them all for advice on how to become less goofy.
Hope this helps you out! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com