does she really like me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
well you see the thing is i have been really great friends with this girl and we get along so well, so the other day we were talking and we happened to find out that we have feelings for each other.
the next day i asked her out and she said yes, so i kissed her.
but then the next day she completely ignoredd me, also when i said it was my last day she just said so!? and started flirting with boys and it seemed she was enjoying herself, and i was so upset as it was my last day at work, so i could not take it anymore and told her friend to say it was over for me, becouse she made it clear, i think, she didnt care about me by ignoring me, but when i think back was she just upset and didnt want to show or something?, most of all when i was telling my friends "i was going now i cant take it anymore it hurts to much so bye guys you've been really supportif friends" i noticed she was looking at me back from the inn and her facial expression showed she seemed trouble and upset.
i miss her so much i havent been in love for 4 years since her and the thing that she done to me hurt so badly becouse i have had such love life troubles in the past, i kept telling myself "im not going to fall in love again its not worth it" but i did...with her
This is a little puzzling to me.
First of all, I want to be sure that this message has nothing to do with the 19 year old girl you were in love with two or three days ago when you wrote.
Next, just to sum things up... about four years ago you fell in love with a girl, she said she loved you too and you kissed but then it fell apart the next day and you told her friend you were through with her. Now four years later you can't get over it.
Based on your age of 13-15, four years ago you would have been 11 at the most. If that is true, and I haven't been confused, then you should ask your parents to take you to a professional psychologist. You are suffering too much and deserve some help. Please do that.
If I have misunderstood you, please write again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com