I cant get over him and its killing me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I fell head over heels in love with a dear friend of mine four years ago. Since then we have dated, fought, loved hated, and had a very crazy friendship, He has hurt me a great deal along the way, He recently moved back into my town and started calling me again after a hiatus of us not speaking. A few months later and BAM found out he.s got a new girlfriend. I can't handle seeing him with other girls, so I told him I couldnt be his friend if he wasnt single. That is harsh I know. But that is the way I feel. Here's my problem. I can't get over him. He is the Love of my life, and he has made me the person I am in a lot of ways, and I can.t get him out of my head. I still feel hurt seeing him with other girls and I can't forget and forgive things that have happened in the past. Everytime I think Ive let go, something else happens that I relize I still love him. I am depressed alot. I go to school and have jobs and I am involved in a lot of activities and I have friends and hobbies. But this part of my life sucks and I am desperate. How can I get over him?

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It sounds like you are in college.

Go to the school psychologists and find someone to help you. You have been hurting too long and it is causing depression.

You deserve a better life! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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