Why hasn't he called me back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I broke up about three months ago. We still talk now and then( about once a week). About three weeks ago, we went out to dinner. I told him I was still not over it yet, but I was clear that i understood that his intentions were for friendship only, and I know he is not misleading me. I know I don't want to get back with him, but I still just feel unsettled about the whole thing. He told me he still had feelings for me and he still thinks about me but doesn't want a relationship. I was pretty clear when I said I understand his intentions and asked him to not feel wierd to call me because its not like I am asking for him back. He said his feelings were still the same about us being friends, and was glad that i got it all out. I haven't heard from him in three weeks, however, he is checking my myspace profile at least twice a day. He doesn't know I know he spys on me through a tracker I have. I called him yesterday morning on my way to work to see how he made out getting settled into his new place after three weeks. I haven't heard back yet. Do you think he will call me back and is just busy, or do you think he doesn't want to talk to me? I am mad because there are a million ways to get in touch with someone if you need to like a text message or phone call. I feel like he intentionally ignored my call. I know its only been a day, but he usually picks up my phonecalls. Do you think I went too long without contacting him? He's building my parent's house, so they have a relationship too. i would think it would be wierd if he was intentionally avoiding me ya know? Maybe its all in my head, and I should give him another day or to to call me back. Or is there something else going on? I need an outside opinion. What do you think? Thanks for your help
My opinion is that you should wait for more than one day before getting upset and imagining all these things.
BTW, the last time you wrote you said that you told him to stop calling you so you could get over him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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