What Should I Do
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Well, i'm finally getting close to my crush. At last! I even hung out with her and her friends for the whole lunch break. More than a couple of people have noticed us getting closer (but I don't care). One of the less friendly people in her general friend group told me to stop flirting, then she said my crush was a flirting machine too. Two of my friends have now told me I should ask her out. One of my friends even came up to us while we were talking and said "Just effing date already!"
Here's the thing: I don't really want to date until High School, so I won't ask her out.... But what if she asks ME out? I'm afraid our relationship might just come to a screeching halt if I say "Not until high school". It probably won't, but that'd be bad.
So, what do you think I should do if she were to ask me out?
You better make up your mind if she asks you.
Maybe you could say that you want to wait until high school before dating but that you would like to hang out with her and do things as friends.
Who knows, maybe she would feel more comfortable with that too? In fact, you could clear this up by simply telling her what I said above.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com