how do i do this?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
theres this girl that ive had a thing for for awhile now. we use to work together up until last fall when i quit. i never actually tried to flirt or anything with her because during that time i had a girl friend. im not some one to get rid of something good that i already have for some thing that "could" be. now after the months have gone by i completely forgot about the girl i use to work with until i was just browseing through myspace pages and i found her. since then ive been commenting and messenging her every now and then but alot more then she has for me. also about a week ago i heard from one of my friends who heard from another one our friends that she had feeling that i liked her but she didnt feel the same way. she just liked me as a friend. im still not sure if this is true or not but its kidna got me feeling like a creep/stalker with all the messages and comments. i want to talk to her more but i dont want to freak her out. what should i do?

also, were both 18...if that helps at all. Advice
She likes you as a friend.

Tell her that you really enjoy talking with her as a friend and that you hope she feels comfortable with that. Then continue talking with her until she has developed feelings for you -- if that is meant to be.

Be honest, trusting, witty, sincere, and attentive. If you are good at this, she will probably respond.

Good luck! George

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