I want to win back my Ex's Love
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I was going out with my ex for 2 months, everything was amazing we had such a connection and were totally in Love. One day she suddenley said she couldnt deal with someone being so in love with her so soon after coming out of a 4 year relationship with her ex.
I asked her for another chance and we agreed to take a step back and chill things out. Everything was going great until a week ago she said that she didn't want any ties right now and she wanted to split up.
The way she was talking to me on the phone made me feel she had no feelings for me anymore, however when I went round to another girls house she went crazy at me. Not only that but when we talk on the phone she keeps asking if ive pulled, or if im looking for another girlfriend.
Im so confused, I want her back so badly and have told her so many times which makes me feel stupid as she says she doesnt want me back. I havent seen her in person since the break up and cause of the distance between us I wont see her for another 2 weeks when our mutual friends are going to a music festival.
I have no idea how I should act with her when I see her, I'm scared im gonna be too over the top again and push her away for good and also scared shes going to have moved on. Please help I want her back so much, I feel like she is the one and if I lose her my life will fall apart. What should I do?
Sorry you are in this situation.
When you meet her just act normal and don't come across as clingy or desperate. Maybe something will click or maybe it won't. Make sure you stay cool either way. You don't want to scare her off.
If you are up for it, have some really interesting activity in mind that you can ask her to go to. It would have to be something really special. Then ask her and your friends if they want to go to it.
This has a chance of working.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com