I want to, but i don't want to
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok Me and My boyfriend have been going out for a while. We have done things....like kissing adn such. We have talked about sex A LOT!!! And well, I REALLY want to, but you see, I'm kind of young. I have been reading a book and it talks about this girl and this guy and they have sex. and like, the more i hear about it, the more I WANNA DO IT!!!! And like, He wants to too, but he doesn't know if we should. I mean I am only 13 but i have sooo many freaking erges to have sex it is not even funny!!! I was wondering What I should do. And that would be really nice becasue I have gotten a lot of advice from you guys. And that is what got me and my boyfriend together. =)
Listen to the part of you that doesn't want to.
You have plenty of time to wait and it will be even more enjoyable. The earlier you engage in sex is the earlier you are disappointed. Boys are more immature than girls and they will probably hurt you and you will miss the pleasure of having sex with someone who really matters.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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