what should i do im totally lost !!
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
im 15 yrs old, the guy i like is 16. i met him at a party on march 17th we talked a little but i was nervous because he was soo cute so it was hard to come up with a convo.he didnt have much to say. we talked a few times afterward only for about five mins . this happened mayb 6 times over the time of going on 3 months. i emailed him bt he didnt respond i gave him my num in a email bt he didnt call. bt yt online he asked me if i liked him. being honest i said yes. i was surprised because he's known for being very shy and not the type to talk first. however he told one of my friends that we were gf and bf bt he never told me . bt when i tlk to him he has nothing to say. his repsonse is quick just a yes or no or he says he has to brb or do something. the last time i saw him was on april 17th and that nite it took him a while to talk first bt he did and asked for a hug then left. i txtd him a while afterward and at first he said it wasnt who i requested then later i txtd him again and he did txt back and we talked. i dont feel like he likes me i wanted to know if im just not noticing something he's trying to tell me. my friend who introduced us says i shud forget about him if its taking this long bt for some reason i want to bt then i still like him or at least physically like him . i dont kno if i shud contiue to chase after him if he wont give back.
Write him and tell him how you feel.
Ask him why he won't give back or talk. My guess is that he will say he is shy. And, that probably is the case.
You would then have to decide whether to lead him on by the hand or leave him to do his own thing. My advice is to give up on him now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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