if i am asking him not to....
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We've been dating for over 6 months. We fight a lot, but it's just because we both are very opinionated people. He loves me, i know it. We went to a pool party about a month ago and we were introduced to a lot of people. After i noticed that he has one of the girl's number. Then i saw he was calling her. We spend everyday together, i know he's t hanging out with her, but i asked him NOT to talk to her at all. he said he respects me enough not to. Today i logged under his name on an instant messenger and saw her as a friend contact. He says she's never online, and they don't talk, but the problem is she wasn't one of the contacts about 2 weeks ago... i don't know what to think...
About the only thing to think is that he is interested in another woman.
Unfortunately he lied to you about not contacting her or so it seems.
My advice is to either learn to live with his contact or give him another ultimatum... either she goes or you do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com