Getting back my ex for the second time!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My ex broke up with me in January and didn't want anythign to do with me. However, I forced the issue and tried to be the nicest and best "bf" to her possible. I did everything for her and went way out of my way for her in every way possible. In April, we eventually got back together.
Today, in may, we broke up again because she said I was controlling and because we got into arguements and fights every single day.
I even explained to her that I would write her a letter (cuz she thought I had a bad attitute and tone towards her) and said that I would write a letter in hopes that only the words to let her know how I feel and not my attitute and tone. Then she said that I was pressuring her too much so I said that I would put no preessure on her whatsoever and let her come on to me when she feels that it is the right time.
But now just like the first time, she keeps mentioning that she wants nothing to do with me, don't call her, see her, etc
So what do you think my best move would be considering the first time, I still called her and saw her as much as possible a couple times a week and called her every single day and we got back together.
Give her the space she needs for about two weeks.
Then call and ask how she is doing and let her know you still care.
Call her once a week just to catch up and hopefully she will become aattracted to you again like last time.
THEN examine yourself and your relationship with her. She isn't complaining about nothing. You need to change those things she is criticizing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com