does he really likes me, or is it a game
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hi,first im 15years old im really confuse bout dis guy i like him very much bt at times i just think dat he is playin,but other times he makes me feel da other way around.i just known him 4 a short time he is goin out with a girl n im goin out 2 wit a guy.i met him in my best friend's 15 n he is my partner 4 her 15.he is realy nice 2 me bt he get 2 close 2 me than he is suppose 2 get u knocuz is a dance.every practice we have is alwayz sumthin new!diz is wat he tells me n does:take care,he told me 2 buy him sumthin n i did cuz he was askin for it 2 much n in return he gave me sumthin 2, wat i don't get bout dat is wen he told me dat "that will make him feel da most happies man in da world" n he has gf. n he also said that da more i hate him da more i love him.i notice dat he kinda gets mad wen im with a guy he starts sayin dat im cheatin on him n dat im his woman,n lotz of other things!he got surprise wen i told him dat i had a man n he was like askin 2 much bout it n y i didn't tell him earlier. he gave me his number n he draw heartz n he put in there mami.oh by da way he is cousine of ma best friend da 1 n doin da 15 with him. so i realy need help on knowin if there is feelin bout him tours me or he is just playin me. sory 4 makin it long plz help me thnx...
I think he has good feelings towards you but at the same time he is very flirtatious toward you.
That's why you feel like he is playing you... that and the fact that he has a girl friend.
Since you have a boyfriend, you are also a player. The door swings both ways, if he is playing you, you are playing him. Otherwise you would be giving him clear signals to stay away from you as a romantic interest.
It would be good for you to make a decision. Stay with your boyfriend and let this guy go, or dump your boyfriend. You are playing two guys.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com