Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi, well you see these 2 girls have me sort of confused. I went out with 1 of these girls last year and broke up a few weeks after because she thought i was overprotective. we went through a few months where i still liked her but acted like i hated her and stuff like that. but then later in the summer she called me and asked me out. i assumed she was joking cuz it seemed random and out of nowhere. after i learned she was being truthful. i said yes but then soon after broke up with her because i was more interested in another girl. now it has been almost a year, we've been through alot this year, one night i confessed that i still liked her and she said she liked me but then the next day said we could never have anything between us, but me being hard headed, still asked her out. it has been about 3 months since then and she said she wants to be "flirty friends" however, she checks me into lockers at school, stays for my track meets, gives me hugs, sometimes ill tackle her playfully and she'll enjoy it then do the same to me but im not sure if she likes me. *ahem* onto girl number 2. i met this girl about 3 months ago when i was out with my friends at a basketball game. it was sort of akward because i knew my 2 guy friends but these 2 girls hung out with us and i didnt know them. about a month ago i went to a party with the same friend and saw the same girl. we talked alot that night, her boyfriend didnt come so she was upset. since then we have seen eachother a few times and talked on AIM almost every day. recently shes been saying stuff about how she needs to break up with his boyfriend because of the end of school and has seemed to care about him less. i told her if she beat my friend in a track race, i would go over and pick her up if she was single. then she said i dont care what my boyfriend thinks, do it anyway. also yesterday night she was talking to me about breaking up with him and how she couldnt do it while i was out of town, and how she was at a party and bad stuff happened and all she wanted to do was call me and hug me. im not really sure if either of these girls like me, maybe you could share some of you knowledge.
Both of them like you.
#2 likes you more than #1.
Figure out which one you like the best and then make your move.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com