Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey, ive been writing for a couple of years now about the same girl. Shell come back to me then break my heart. i love her soooo much though i keep taking her back. she really mean everything to me. we've beenbroken up for a year now, and we just started hanging out again, kinda as friends but everyone around feels we're dating. we've been togeter for like 5 years and i want her back, ive been playing it how she wants too, as friends, but i dont know how to kinda kick start it into the romance league... i wanna be back with her but i don tknow how she feels and i feel wierd bringing it up, i dont wanna ruin what wehave goiing rihgt now.... i love her soo muxh and juust want her back... how can i get the spark back? i NEED her!!! she is my everything!!!!!!!!!!
There is no magic way to get the spark back. It takes hard work and still may not work.
First take some basics of a successfull relationship: communicate with her (share information), be compassionate (share feelings), and be affectionate (compliments, smiling, touching). These are some basics.
Then work on improving yourself: dress nicely, groom yourself well (hair, nails, etc), get buff, be intelligent, be witty, be trustworthy, honest, and make her a priority.
If you handle these well (and other things too) you may just get a spark.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com