Thinking about her 24-7

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi um its hard to find a way to say this.
um there is this girl ive known her 3 years. but i was rejected by her in february this year, she wanted to be just friends and said stuff like "i don't want the friendship to be ruined".
i was hurt for ages then i got over it.
now all i think about, is her 24-7, i have the love feelings back and all i want to do is be there for her, make her happy, make everyday worth living and see her smile.
but its hard even tho she said just friends she has actually distanced her self from me. i dont know how to make things go back to the way they use to be.
please help me ive loved her ever since i first talked to her. i feel like shes the one even tho things arn't working. Advice
You are not going to make her happy if you are thinking of her so much.

The reason is that she can sense what you are feeling and also because you can't act normally around her and you end up distancing yourselves.

Do whatever you have to (within reason) to get her off your mind so much. Take up a sport or hobby for the summer, get a job, or whatever. This will relax you some so you won't be uptight around her.

Maybe you could sign up for a summer school course or get a part in a play. There are many things you could do.

Good luck! George

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