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Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi. well, i have 2 problems. 1, i just really want to kiss her, but her friends tell me it was too early for me to kiss her. but whenever i try to i feel like it's not the right time. and whenever i'm with her, i never have anything to say because i never have anything to talk about and i feel like i'm boring her. and last weekend i called her and asked if she was free so we could hang out and she said no and later that weekend i asked what she was up to and she said nothing. it just kind of made me feel bad. so i have a few questions
1- what should i do about the kissing situation?
2- what can i do to improve my conversation/talking skills?
and there really isnt anything i can do about the situation where i never really just spend time with just her is there?
thanx 4 ur help
It would make sense to wait on the kissing until you have a good feeling about the talking problem.
There is a whole universe of things to talk about. Family, friends, school, teachers, past vacations, summer plans, music, movies, foreign languages, sports, arts, band, concerts, fairs, kissing, computers, games, biking, swimming, dating, sex, etc.
The fact that you two aren't talking, means that she can't think of topics either. You two could discuss the talking problem and bring up different subjects in a list like I did above.
There is also a webpage on this topic, see:
Good luck! George
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