I don't know how to handle this in the next few months
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
im very sorry that this is so lengthy.
ok, so i am the same guy who wrote the love stories "Grade school love" and "I was wrong. That crush I had in fourth grade, we weren’t meant to be".
I have been with the girl i talked about in the second story for 2 years and 2 months, mostly because she goes to a different school than me. I had taken her to homecoming, and i really care about her. Recently, her friends have been bothering me with prank calls, and have tried to persuade her to break up with me. We got her friends to stop and apologize, but she sent me a message that says she needs a break until school is over, which is fine with me. But then, i get a message in french (je ponce, c'est tout! nous avons fini) that translates to: I pounce, it is all! we finished. I pretty sure that it says: we're finished. She also sent in a previous message (not in french) that she still likes me and misses me. Also, her friends keep saying that she's trying to break up with me.
If she still likes me, and she isn't in love with anyone else (neither am i), then why is she breaking up with me?
We are also going on a trip to Israel with a small group (about 10 people) of other freshmen, and the plane ride there is 14 hours long. if we break up before then, just what am i supposed to do? the akwardness will be too much and very uncomfortable. what can i do to stay together until the trip is over? (the trip is 10 days long) and if we do break up, how should i deal with the situation? thank you.
She wrote (in French): I think, this is all! We have finished)
I don't know why she wants to break up, perhaps it is her friends.
Ask her if you can postpone the breakup until after the Israel trip and if she says no then ask her how you two should interact on the trip. If it comes to that my advice is to treat each other as friends.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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