How should I continue to handle my situation? what do you think my ex's intentions are?#2
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Thank you for the bit of advice that you gave me. This one is just to have a more defined answer...
I dont want to be playing a game either but right now it seems that is the way I must handle this situation, you said were both playing the same game (my ex and I) and its working..what do you mean by that?
Also should I wait sometime before calling her to set up another time to meet for lunch or should I just call her now?? She did say that we should do it again sometime when we were parting ways from our last lunch (which was on saturday the 28th).
I dont want to seem too anxious or pushy with her since it has taken quite amount of time to reach this point and I dont want to be too hasty and ruin my chances.
I think she likes you too and is holding back that information... but since you are doing the same thing and things are going fine, the game playing seems to be working so far.
Ask her out to a restaurant again next weekend and see how things go. The game can only go on so far until one or the other of you tires of it. You might tell her that you are developing feelings for her if you think she won't be scared off. It will also give her a chance to show a bit of her feelings too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com