Not Understanding Him
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Me & this guy have been dating for about 3 months & everything seems to be going well, except he keeps meeting my friends & then asking me if they r dating any1 & im like yea & ask him y & his response is just wondering. But he says he loves me & shows me he loves me. Maybe you have an explanation or an idea behind that? is he trying 2 make me jealous or trying 2 get rid of me? Because making me jealous is workin (also making me upset) He's asked about 3 friends already. But, Like he wants 2 get all intimate & we do sumtimes. & then he asks about marrage & kids & i get scared. & like we always hang out every weekend (every saturday) is it too much time with him or sumthin?
How can I somehow find out wats going on inside his head? I fear he will leave me if i give him 2 much/too little idk wat to do. please help, i really need it.
I think he is asking about your friends because he is interested and that's all. Just answer him and then ignore it or you might put ideas into his head.
You are seeing him a reasonable amount of time. If he wants more (or if you do) then communicate this to each other.
Communication is a key to a good relationship so ask him questions rather than worrying about them.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com