What can I do to get him back???
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
me and my ex were friends before we went out. after a week we went out he broke up with me. He said hes been like this girl for a year, he thought his feelings for her have gone but he was wrong. He said it isnt fair on me while hes with me but has felling for someone else..so he decided to break up with me. I told him that I would be there for help to help him get over her and i told him that no matter how long it takes for him to get over her Ill be there for him and wait till the day we get back again.
I really love him and i really want him back!! what should I do???? I cant even be myself..it hurts with all the pains i have to deal with even though i did nothing wrong. I always be the one who get dumped. I dont wanna lose him.. I can't say that hes a right guy but when im with him i have this sense that he is....Help me please!
Ask him if you can call him once a week for 15 minutes.
Use that time to tell him you still care and to also check up on how each other's life is going. Be his best friend if you can. Be communicative, compassionate, and affectionate. This will create trust and honest. These are very important parts of a good relationship.
Don't be clingy or try to force him to come back... he will resent that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com