i don't know anymore
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i met this guy a while ago and we got on great and he was nice, sweet etc. i asked him out and he said no due to just breaking up with his girlfriend. i asked him where i stood a few weeks later and he didn't bother answering me, so i just left it at that. anyway, recently i've been noticing he only bothers contacting me when he wants to have some fun. i find it really hard to say no so i go along with it and always end up regretting it. (we haven't gone all the way though.) friends keep saying he's using me and yeah, i've started to believe them but i still like him and i really have no idea with what to do next. thanks for your help.
Learn to say no.
Practice it so when he calls the words will come out smoothly.
As you said, he is using you and it's time for that to stop.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com