I want the girl i love back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Im in 11th grade and my ex-gf is in 10th we live about 20-30min from eachother nd we started goin out last summer but weve been together a lil longer than that when we first met each other it was like love at first site we were always happy together and things were realy good but then about 6 months after weve been goin out things started to get a lil down we would get in lil arguments over stupid things and i was always stressed about school and sports nd she would get mad at me but then the next day we would act like everything is ok and the fact that we didnt really get to see eachother much really hurt us she is my first love and im her first love and her first real relationship but about a month nd half ago we tried to take a lil break cuz she needed her space nd i didnt want to admit it but i needed mine nd we both knew but that didnt work to well nd she didnt wanna try to work things out nd i kinda did so about 2 weeks ago we talkd about breakin up nd jus bein friends for a while nd i agreed with her cuz we both need it but then somthin insidee didnt want to break up i love her alot and shes really the only thing in my life right now that makes me happy so 2weeks ago we hung out nd tlkd nd w/e nd we broke up but it was a mutual happy break up so were like eachothers best friend i guess now but we both felt a lil good abt it but its been 2 weeks and i cant stop thinkin abt her nd i told her i miss her so much nd i feel that i wanna get back together but she says she wants to stick wit wat we agreed on idk wat to do but i do want to do that and wait it out and i want her to come back to me but i feel that that might not happen nd i want her back so bad nd i dont want her to be wit anyone else but she told me she doesnt want any relationship right now well thats about it i tried to put everythin in ther but i probably left some out but please what should i do i want her back i miss her nd love her
You are best friends.
Keep in contact with her as much as you can and perhaps the spark will re-ignite. It isn't unusual for couple to re-unite after a break up and yours is only 2 weeks old.
So treat her the best you can and see what happens.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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