i REALLY need help.
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend and I went out in 6th grade for a year then broke up during 7th grade. He contacted me again and we started going back out we have been going out for a little over a year now. We did everything together though we hung out everyday went on vacation together went to family parties and everything! My family loved him and his family loved me. In december we got in a stupid fight over somthing stupid and broke up. I realized he started to hang out with other girls so i went off and got a new boyfriend. When he contacted me again and asked me to break up wtih my boyfriend for him, i refuesed to. Even though i didn't like my new boyfriend i did it because i am very spiteful and wanted him to get so jealous and beg me too. This time it was different he didn't and i got mad and told him to never talk to me again and stay outta my life. Basically thats what hes been doing since January of this year. Me and my new boyfriend broke up,i broke up with him because hes nothing like my ex and i really love my ex. My ex has been hanging out with other girls and hooking up but nothing to serious with him. He recently told my BEST FRIEND that he misses me alot and always thinks about me, somedays he calls her crying saying he really loves me but he never calls me because i told him to say outta my life. My BEST FRIEND keeps telling me i should contact him, so i sent him a myspace request but he denied me. Then she told me to text him but i'm afraid to. I don't know why i'm afraid to but i am. I don't know if i should contact him or wait for him to make the first move. If i do contact him i wouldn't know what to say either and thats where you come in. I seriously need help because this is killing me everyday. Please help me i don't know if i should text him or wait. If i do text him i wouldn't know what to say. Please help me.
What is this? A movie?
He loves you and you love him-- what's the problem?
You pick up the phone--forget texting--and tell him aloud that you love him and you are sorry you told him to stay out of your life.
He should be delighted and you two will be back together, one happy, loving couple.
How hard is that?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com