first time

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi. ok so ive never really had my first kiss but ive been dating a guy that a little older and has had more eexperience well we dont get to see each other very much but when we do its really day we were outside walking and he stopped me and tried to kiss me but instead of kissing him i turned my head away because i was to nervous and wasnt sure wat to do.
how can i prevent this next time and get the nerve to actually do it. Advice
You've now given him the idea you don't want to kiss him.

That's a real turn off and if you don't do something quick he may leave.

It's your turn to initiate the kissing. You should already be hugging, so when you hug, give him a kiss on the cheek and say "now how about a real kiss."

If that's too scary for you, at least bring up the subject in conversation and explain to him that you do wan't to kiss him. Sometimes talking is the easiest way to solve problems.

Good luck! George

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