i dont know what to do anymore
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello! its funny dat i got here 2day coz 16 months ago i asked for ur advice how to meet this girl and start goin out with! it even took me 3 months to talk to her! finally we got 2gether and its been really great these last 16 months! i have loved her more than anythin shes the most increadible girl i have ever met... but they sky is not alway clear and sunny sum times it gets cloudy nd wen the storm cums u dont know what to do..
see ive been in the army for 9 months now and it hasnt been that easy for me or my gf .. at the beginnin we were doin ok but the last 1 and a half months she has started hangin out with her friends more and more every day! ( we have never gone out alone wiht our friends it was always me and her) and now suddently she has started goin out with them to clubs ! she went 3 times so far ! the 1st time it came like a shock to me but i said its ok since it was just one time .. last week she went out agen and she didnt evern ask me if its ok with me to go she just txted me this '' im goin to.... i just thought to let u know''
and her behavour has started changin coz of the impact her friends have on her ! i told her that and she kinad started to become her old self! but lately it doesnt feel rite ! i mean when im with her im ok but when we are not together im thinking wot my life would be like with out her and all the things im missing out there! i dont know what to do .. i dont know if i ll regret it after i split up with her! im leavin to go to study in 5 months .. do u think i should end it now? please help me!
when we are together she says she loves me and kisses me but when we are apart she acts way to different ! please help me guys .. i DUNNO wot to do :(
You are beginning to doubt her and doubt yourself as well.
Have a long, gentle discussion with her and let her know what you are thinking and feeling. Who knows, perhaps it is time for you two to take a break.
Being away from each other will show you how it feels to be separate and whether you want to get back together again or not.
See how she feels about it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com