He leaves in 2 months
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So here is my problem...Sorry for the length
It all started in drama class when I was thinking about this other guy's bday being on prom night. So I asked this guy in my drama class, also a senior if he would go to prom on his bday. He said he would if he had a date. Than he asked me whos bday was on prom night. I said no ones. Than he said I was a bad lier and asked me to sit with him. He asked me who I liked and said he might be able to help me I finally told him and he said that he couldnt help me because he thought that guy was a douche and that he has treated him inferior for all the years they have been in school. Than he helped me with my math HW. I enlisted his help again in study hall the next day when I started making simple mistakes on the math problems. I say I dont know why I am making these mistakes and he says well maybe you are nervous about something or you have something on your mind. I than dropped my calculator....Fast forward to next drama class where he tutored me again and I got nervous. He says Your doing that nervous thing again, I can hear it in your voice. So I tell him I had a bad day and he said sorry. After that he was all caught up in the musical the drama dept was presenting. We didnt talk for awhile. So one day i make this post on myspace about him that repeated his name over and random words. He was surprised, but not mad. So the next day at school the bells about to rang to end study hall and I ask him if i can have his jacket he gives it to me after I plead a little. After the end of day bell rang I asked him if I could keep his jacket overnight he looked at me weird but let me take it anyway. So the next day at school I gave him his jacket back with a note inside. It basically said...life is short, I hope your girl problems work out for you, hope you dont think im weird, your a really great guy and I'm leaving you alone for my sake! He put the jacket on in Study Hall and felt the note than left. Now i dont know what to do, he is single at the moment and I really like him. If he likes me too, he will respond to the note right? Any advice. I think I might have messed this one up big time! There is two months left before he leaves!
I think he will be confused by what you wrote.
It doesn't make much sense that you are leaving him alone for your own good... maybe for his good. But even that doesn't make sense.
You need to be straightforward with him and tell him you really like him. Then he has a chance to answer something real.
Talk to him or write him another note and hand it to him. In this note tell him you like him a lot and ask him to the prom. He will have to answer that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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