She Disappeared and returned again

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, I need help with my Ex girlfriend. We were together for 7 years and she decided to end it 6 months ago, excuse being feelings change. Then suddenly she came popping into my life again, through our common friend. Within a week we went out more then 5 times, we catch up a lot and I tried by flirting with her again, she responded, I had physical touch with her like on her thighs, I hugged her, hold her waist and all, she did not rejected these things. Iím very puzzled on why she suddenly reappeared. I still love her a lot and I really want to be back with her. I was wondering is she playing hard to get or is there more to that. I need to know what should I do to get her back. And how do you look at this situation, as I really do not know why is she reacting this way. She did say that she thinks she like us this way, with no commitment, no strings attached, she is enjoying singlehood, how do I turn this into commitment again? Advice
Be the best friend you can be.

Be there for communication, sharing feelings, and affection. The more you do this the more she will feel committed to you. Enjoy what you can and be joyful and she will be joyful with you.

Show her your love and hopefully she will respond.

Good luck! George

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