I have 2 problems
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i'm a 20 years old girl, i'm having 2 problems. It's 2 years now and i still love this guy, what happens is, he tells me he really likes me, and then after 2 weeks he comes and tell me we can't be together, he keeps doing that every time.There's that girl with us in class who he asked her out once, the girl seems to like him and she seems to hate me, but he never really told her he likes her, because if he did, she would have told me as she is trying to make me jealous all the time so she tells me every nice thing he does with her, and she's the one who told me he asked her out.
The problem is that he does something that makes me really jealous and want to explode.
he acts infront of her and all the people as if he really likes me.but some few times he acts nice with her and totally ignores me for her. but he does this few times.But most of the time he acts as if he really likes me. These few times makes me really jealous and i cry cuz i feel ignored and underestimated. But i tried everything to forget him and i couldn't, and i also tried many things to get him back, i tried talking honestly with him but he just acts rude when i do so, i tried ignoring him, and when i do that he starts being nice with me again for 2 days and then he's ignoring me again. I'm just tired of these games, i dunno how he's thinking and whether he likes this girl or not.
My second problem is:
Many guys think i'm very pretty and stunning, actually many guys are attracted to me from the first sight because of how i look like, but once they know me and deal with me even as friends, they don't seem to be interested anymore, and they are not attracted to me anymore. I know it must be something in my personality but i don't really know the what is the personality that guys are attracted to. I'm a mix of serious and loose, and i'm a bit shy but not all the time.But i think that it's the way of treatment it's self that push them away. I'd like some few hints on the type of girls guys like.
Thank you in advance for your help
The first problem with the guy...
You should cut off contact with him. He is doing you no good and playing games with your mind.
As far as the second question...
Ask your friends if they can think of any reason why boys don't stick around. It may be something as simple as your breath. Boys like the same things girls do: good intelligence, compassion, and physical attraction. Then there are things like nice hair, well dressed, well spoken, athletic, popular, and pleasant.
The next time you get dumped by a boy ask him sincerely what character trait he found unpleasant. You could even ask old boyfriends.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com