Do I put up with his BS or give up?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Well my boyfriend of a year and half constantly puts his friends before me and he doesn't realize it. No matter how much I tell him he is doing this he doesn't seem to think he his wrong. And he constantly spends all his time with them and lets them stay over at our home every night. I try talking to him but nothing ever changes SHOULD I STAY AND WAIT TO SEE WHAT HAPPENS OR LEAVE AND TRY TO GET OVER THIS WHOLE MESS? PLEASE HELP.
Keep a diary of when he is out with friends or has friends over.
Do this for a month then count the days when he spent the day just with you. Also add up all the hours he spent with friends.
Show him the results and tell him you are considering leaving him because of it. He can't deny it when reality is hitting in the face.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com