I'm so confused
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
im confused im 15 and im in the 9th grade and i like boys but resontly i've been feeling these feelings for other girls. i don't know what to do. i'm not sure if im a lesbian or not and if i am i don't know if its a good thing or not cuase if i am i dont want to freek my friends and family out and become an out cast.
If you like both boys and girls then you would be a "bi-sexual."
Try to find some older person you can trust to discusss this with you. If your school has a psychologist that would be perfect, or school nurse, or a religious person.
Don't worry about being an outcast. This is the 21st century now and people are far more understanding than in the past.
There is also another term that might describe you better and that is "bicurious." Go to a search engine and do a search on BISEXUAL TEEN and you will get many hits that might interest you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com