long distant friendship, want more though (part 2)
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hey i just realized i might have used some inapporpriate language in my last post... sorry about that, i kinda went off a little... please let know what u think regardless even if you dont post it on this site... my question was about a girl i met online like 5 years ago and we had visited eachother, she just recently came out to Phoenix to see me.. she's from Houston... and im gettin all sorts of mixed signals it seems like.. hopefully that rings a bell now and you know what question i'm talking about. thank you in advance for any help! Oh, and i dunno if it makes a difference, but we are both 21 years old.
No problem about the previous post. I would have editted it if I put it up on the website. But instead I am answering both posts here.
As your previous post implied, your feelings are quite a bit stronger than hers
and, in fact, she had a boyfriend up until three weeks ago. She even talks about getting back together with him.
My advice on how to proceed is to push the idea of moving to Houston. This will really make her face up to her feelings for you. They must be reasonably strong since she came to visit 5 days with you in Phoenix. Tell her you want to try it just to see if it works out between you two.
Who knows you yourself may discover that a local relationship doesn't work for you for some reason. Worth finding out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com