forever has lost its meaning.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
me and my boyfriend had been dating almost 9 months. he has had kind of a hard life, and has had a harder time getting through things, so when we started dating, i tryed so much to better his life. when i got my lisence i became his main source of transportation, if he didn't have any money i'd give him some and wouldn't require him to pay me back or what not. i gave him all the love i had in me, and he loved me in return.
after the first few months he started to get a little bit confortable and stopped treating me so nice, but he wasn't bad to me. we shared some of the best times i've had in my life. lately we have been fighting a lot, and he blamed it all on me which wasn't fair, because we were equally at fault. i was getting fed up with that, but i'd never leave him because i loved him UNCONDTIONALLY.
yesterday i drove him to a job interview, and he was being rude to me so i said something, so then he decided to break up with me. i don't understand what i did to him. i've done so much for him and this is my payment. despite the way he's been treating me i want to be with him, forever. like he promised me THE NIGHT BEFORE! he told me that he didnt feel the same about me. i dont understand how the day before we were sooo in love.
are these signs that he left me for another girl, or that he's confused or what? i have no clue. i want him back, but i dont want to beg. what can i do?
It's only been one day.
Give this a little time and thing will probably go back to normal, which doesn't sound too good BTW.
When emotions get aroused, people say things they don't mean sometimes. Let's hope this is one of those times. Give it a few days and then call him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com