what do i do now?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi well i finally kissed her (it was more of a peck on her lips) but i still feel extremely accomplished! and we love each other! and we r bf+gf! YAY but i have 2 problems. 1 is that her friends (2 of her friends) dont trust me and they think i am rushing things, that i use her as a trophy cuz i hav never had a gf before, and that i am a bitch 0.o i have tried 3 times to talk to them about it but they r being stubborn and wont believe me! and 2, i read that tip about telling her about touching each other, but i dont kno how to say it to her. so i have 2 questions
1- how do i gain her friends trust and approval of me?
2- how should i tell her about the whole touching situation? (becuz i dont want to seem like im manipulating her, or seem like i am pressuring her or making her uncumfortable)
1. The friends: as long as your gf loves you and is getting along with you, her happiness will show through to her friends... so just give it time.
2. Be honest with her and say just what you said to me... that you want her to feel comfortable so she should make it clear if you do something that makes her uncomfortable. And likewise you share your feelings with her if something she is doing makes you uncomfortable. It doesn't have to just be touching, it could be attitudes, statements, jokes, etc.
Glad you are making progress! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com